My Attorney Just Admitted A Meeting With Opposing Counsel Without Me...

My attorney just referred to a meeting she had with my wife, her attorney, and the mediator we hired without me present and without my knowledge or my permission. I need help.

our last mediation session was with our attorneys present in separate rooms at my attorneys law building. At the end, the mediator came to our room and declared the session over and she thought that she would have a draft of our agreement ready in a few days.I spoke briefly with my attorney about nothing important, exchanged pleasantries and I started leaving the building, before deciding to use the restroom. I then left the building a few minutes later. I remember noticing my wife's car still in the parking lot and thinking that was a bit odd, and lingered a bit to watch. Unfortunately my paranoia didn't get the best of me or I had someplace to be and I left.

Now, in a reply email from my attorney where I was trying to gain some understanding about how a particular issue, with the opposite language as to what I remember being settled on, got put in our final decree completely wrong, she refers to "the meeting at the end of the final mediation session where we all got together in the big conference room..." Then says WE actually proposed the wording that is now in the final filing. But I never attended any such meeting - nor was I invited - nor was I informed.

On one hand, I'm floored because it seems like about the biggest violation of attorney-client trust I can think of. My attorney and the mediator choreographed this episode. On the other hand, I've had uneasy feelings around several things already, especially with our mediator. It seems these three family law attorney's feel entitled to practice family law however they see fit... and the brought my wife into the club, or maybe it's a coven at this point.

Believe it or not, this came in the final email from my attorney before she formally removed herself from the case as the divorce has been finalized. You read that right. I signed this piece of junk and of course I regret it. I won't even try to explain everything else, but I was just destroyed by the end. And I clearly didn't have anybody on my team interested in pepping me up and pushing me forward. I caved.

What do I do? I know I can file a complaint with the state court, and I almost certainly will. But does this qualify Do this qualify as anything higher? They all were there according to my attorney and each of them had to know that what they were doing was completely inappropriate. It also had to be premeditated to a certain extent. And if they were so comfortable as to do that in the law buildings main conference room, I simply can imagine what else was going on.

I feel really sad and helpless. Can anybody shed some light on what I dealing with here?