Ex Girlfriend Falsely Accusing Me Of Harassment.
(State of GA) My ex (22F) and I (24M) broke up a little over two weeks ago. I was heartbroken and reached out and she blocked me. I then wrote an apology letter and left it at her door a few days later. A few more days past that, she reaches out and gives me closure and ensures that the relationship is indeed over. I instantly feel better because she gave me the honest answer and I was able to start moving on. Fast forward to sunday - I reached out to which she didn’t answer, so i left a voicemail - and i asked in a very respectful way to just exchange our items from each others houses. I had clothes and other personal items of hers and she had blankets, clothes, and more importantly a key to my house. In this voicemail I even stated that the exchange didn’t have to be in person, and we could just drop the requested items off at each others doors. She never responded, so yesterday (Tuesday) i reached out again, and she didn’t answer. I didn’t leave another voicemail because I thought “Okay i’ll just drop her stuff off and leave a note asking for her to return my key and other items. Well this morning I received a formal letter from a law firm in our town that her sister works at, and this letter states that I am harassing her, and says if I would like to get my items back - i need to go through the legal office that her sister works at. They also state that I need to be 50 feet away from her and her home. I do want to note that this is a warning and not an official restraining order.
The whole relationship was great with us both being respectful to each other. Even the last conversation we had wasn’t toxic in the slightest. I obviously know that I can either change my locks or reach out to her lawyer aka sisters firm. But why should I have to pay out of my own pocket to get my locks changed, and I also feel like reaching out without proper representation could bite me in the butt. I need advice reddit!
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