Mother Wants Me To Get An Apartment Under My Name Her To Live In

TLDR: mother was the one who caused me so much debt and is now asking me to apply for an apartment under my name for her to live in.
hi everyone, this is a bit of a doozy. sorry if this is wrong sub to talk about this. my mom lost her main job a couple of months ago and since then, has only worked thru delivery services and online tutoring “side-hustles.” she unfortunately missed rent a couple of times, so as of a month ago, she announced to me she and my younger sister (18f) are getting evicted. before this, i (22f) was living with them. i worked a job making $18 an hr and was pretty much the breadwinner. my mom had made me apply for like 3 or 4 credit cards when i was younger and they all are now at their limit or close to it. i was the only one paying on the CCs, including helping with our house bills, groceries, etc. it got to the point where one day, she couldn’t afford rent and asked me to apply for a loan to pay it. of course i got denied bc of my debt to income ratio. she gets angry and complains i “never help around the house, you see me struggle but do nothing.” this is what ultimately made me leave; i couldn’t take it anymore. fast forward to today, she’s now being evicted. of course, she consistently blames me for “abandoning her” and being the most selfish person she knows. i am still paying all of the debt on my own; i am still paying their internet/phone bill when i don’t even live in the same state anymore. recently, she got the news that they have to be out by this Saturday. my mother calls me to tell me “you need to get an apartment under your name.” 3 bed, 2 bath in orlando. i tell her i can’t, and she immediately blows up. my reasoning was bc of her financial history, and i wouldn’t even be there. how would that even work? she said all i’d have to do is apply under my name, put her on the lease, and she’ll take care of the rent. was i wrong for saying no? the total debt im taking care of right now is about $21,000. i have tried to get her to apply for other temporary jobs while she waits to get what she wants - i even offered her my job and i could go back to chick fil a (where i used to work). her reasoning behind not getting another full time actual job? she doesn’t want to work under anyone. her current next plan is to stay in a hotel with my sister which is $600 weekly, more than the rent costed at their apartment. they have the option to live for free with my older sister in a different state. my mother’s reasoning to not do that? family drama and she just “doesn’t like the state.” any advice or rude awakening is welcome.
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