Going Through Bitter Divorce, Wife Filed Multiple Restraining Orders And Told Police I Sell Drugs And Now They’re Following And Pulling Over Anybody That Comes To My House

Im In Los Angeles county. As the tittle says my wife filed for restraining order against me, first one was dropped because she didn’t any proof, then she filed a second one and she filed it with the divorce and that one was dropped because although she did serve me for the restraining order she didn’t serve me for the actual divorce. That really upset this particular judge and the DVRO case was dropped. I know we she was going to refile so I filed a restraining order as well. They combined both Into one case. I have videos and recordings of my wife being very aggressive, hitting and hurting me. Although I did transcribe it properly I guess I didn’t time stamp it properly and because my wife didn’t have a copy of the recordings. I did send her a copy of transcripts tho the judge didn’t want to accept it as evidence. she still didn’t have Evidence but she promised that she did have evidence and the judge gave her hours to find it. She never found any evidence and this seemed to annoy the same judge as last time. So she decided to give us each a DVRO against each other so now the rules are we have to stay 15 feet away from each other I can’t talk or interact with my wife Since then about a month ago she’s called the police that I violated the DVRO saying I broke the refrigerator. (The thermostat broke) also about a few other minor thingS. I dIDn’t even violate the DVRO. Either her or someone in her family called the police and told them that I sell drugs because the police have pulled over people leaving my house asking if they bought drugs from me. One friend got their car towed. Im very annoyed and I’m Wondering what my options are .
A few things to note, when all these restraining orders were pending which was 7 months I wasn’t allowed in my home they gave me 5 minutes to get some clothes and toiletries. On the last DVRO I was technically allowed back home but she filed some paperwork implying that wasn’t allowed home and when she served me i was not allowed in my home once more. The judge notes this and scolded her doing this type of work around once I about to finally see the judge.
Also there no court days upcoming for some reason although the divorce is still going through and pending.
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