Ex-wife Sent Out A 27 Page Document Of Fantasy To Family And Friends During Divorce.

So I found out this weekend after our trial that my wife sent a 27 page document of her claims against me. Supposedly it is the same document she sent to the parental rights evaluator, PRE. Initially I figured I couldn't do anything about this as it was disguised to appear she accidentally sent it to the first people who brought it to my attention. But last night I was talking to my old neighbor and friend and she texted it to him saying "if you want to know what happened read this". I can prove the document is factually incorrect and the document is very detailed on our marital problems. I sent around some texts last night and discovered more people who were told in person by her some of the false information, including our daughters friend's parents. Her intent was to destroy my reputation and make it so I had no one to talk to. Her false claims were sexual assault, possibly rape, and abuse. She has also told our children this information and they are a 13 year old with ASD and a 8 year old with anxiety.
To an extent her actions worked and I lost all community. Our entire church thinks I left her and the kids and had an affair, but it was her who had the affair and that is a court fact. I suffered isolated from everyone except my family who do not live locally. Our son is disabled and I am his caretaker so I am dependent on her income (~1m) so I cannot pursue criminal charges and maybe not even a PO. I have to protect her job as messed up as that is. We are still technically in the divorce process so contempt of court is on the table. I have a feeling if I do nothing anyone I have contact with will get letters like these and I figured this so when I started dating I let my partner read her accusations.
What can I do in this situation to end this harassment, ignoring it has done nothing and the past 18 months has been hell on earth.
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