Husband Threatening To Take 2 Years Son Away To Pakistan
We live in NJ US. Husband do domestic violence and physical abuse when he is angry, and always threat me to harm my senior citizen mom. Today he did that again, because I decline that my toddler will visit Pakistan. After he spoke on the phone with his mom, he started this again today. Due to he live between people with extremely backwards mentality and toxic environment for woman of other country (love marriage) plus (due to experience when I visited). I don’t want our kid to be part of it.
I offered that his parents can see our child in any other as we travel a lot. I am not stopping my son to meet his grand parents somewhere else, as all are capable of traveling, and his mom also travels often for pilgrimage, etc. I even agreed that we can visit Pakistan as a holiday trip when he gets older, but kid doesn’t necessarily has to live in village for 15 days, due to above mentioned points.My MIL keep demanding my son, and husband want him to live there for 15 days like he does. I told my husband that you grew up there and they are your parents you can live there for months, I have no objection, but your mom can’t force our child to do the same.
He keep threatening he will take him and go to Pakistan without me. I can’t even live in his village for a day, not because of village but due to how people are nosy, intrusive and toxic. They create misunderstandings between me and him, and due to my husbands anger issues I don’t feel safe to go to Pakistan anymore especially in their village, where people do without worrying about laws, mainly tribal things. What are my legal rights as a mother? He throws phones at me, previously broke my work laptop, hit me approx 10 times in 3 different countries including 5-6 times in the US. I don’t want divorce neither him. I believe he has anger issues, but we can’t even live 2 hours without talking to each other. Can my husband takes my 2 years old or minor son away from me to other country without my consent?
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