A Woman I Don’t Know Is Stalking Me, And Has Told People That We Are Dating And That I Raped Her. Illinois

This happened 5 years ago, right before the pandemic.

From my perspective, right before the pandemic, the girl I was chasing threw me away, turned all of our friends against me, and ruined my life. Then the pandemic hit. Some time later another girl at a restaurant we both ate at started telling me she was saying things about me behind my back, causing me to call her a stalker. My friend sent me a bunch of messages, none of them made sense to me, I blamed the girl I had been chasing, and didn’t even bother to read them. I no longer talk to any of the people I spent my entire life being friends with, and that girl I was chasing got addicted to coke.

I’ve since learned of the existence of another girl, who might be named Rachel. Rachel told the girl I was chasing that she was my girlfriend. She told my friends I was harassing her. She told my coworkers we were dating. I met her exactly once, she walked up to me, bought me a drink, we took a selfie, she groped me and tried to kiss me in front of the girl I was chasing (her breath smelled like she just sucked someone’s dick) and I pushed her off of me, and she walked away.

After that I moved towns, and really never talked to my friends again.

I later found out that another girl was saying I got her addicted to coke and some other things, when I went looking for that girl to figure out why she would say that, I was essentially ambushed and attacked by the girl who told me the girl I was originally chasing was lying about me, and the result of that was that she now has a restraining order because when I ate at her restaurant she documented things as if I was harassing her. She showed up to court looking like a ghost because she did a week binge on cocaine and slept for 4 hours before the hearing.

When I found out that the girl ‘Rachel’ existed, because she told a friend of mine that we had had sex, I realized that she was what my friend messaged me about years ago, the reason that the girl I was chasing turned everyone against me, and the reason I am a pariah in my home town. I posted the selfie of us and told the story of what happened on Facebook. She had lawyers sent me a C&D.

I have since gotten proof that this woman has said I raped her, but I don’t have anything else, just someone willing to say it was told to them.

Is it possible to subpoena my own phone records to get the conversation between my friend and I for proof if it’s not a criminal case?

If I hired a PI, I can absolutely get evidence that people say this about me.

I don’t know her name, her actual name, where she lives, or where she works. I know nothing about her. But I have her lawyers she had send me a C&D, if I compile enough evidence, can I send a law suit to them?

If I am able to compile the evidence to sue her, what even would I be suing for?

What I have been living through almost seems like a conspiracy. Every one of her coke addict friends lies about me in my home town, and as a bartender, it has both hurt my life professionally and personally. I developed an anxiety disorder that makes it hard to socialize, and I don’t have any friends left, and the girl I was chasing has done so much to hurt me because she thought I was lying to her the entire time I knew her. I lost everything I ever cared about and I’m just empty, and I don’t know what I can do.

Edit: I can prove that I never had a sexual relationship with her, because I can prove that I don’t have herpes. One of the things that she has done was to tell everyone that she gave me herpes, or that I gave it to her, either way I’m not sure, I just know that I don’t have herpes.