What The Hell?

I just posted advice to dating over 40 forum and was insulted and called a victim! It was terrible how rude people were. Only one person said they could relate. I used the term narcissist to reference my dating experiences and people went crazy! So is this topic taboo for the normal dating world? If people only knew what the hell I endured. I’m really deflated now thinking this is my only safe space!! What the hell just happened?

So does this mean I can’t be genuine and myself when I re enter the dating world and say I had a traumatic unhealthy relationship? People were saying I wasn’t taking accountability for my part which blew my mind because I am literally sitting and dying in my head everyday going over my part in addition to their part!